Need some life advice.

**Tx69** · 03-23-2012, 07:56 PM

i feel like I'm going crazy, i feel overwhelmed, i feel empty inside and sad. Pretty much these last couple of days during spring break i have realized what a fuck up my life has become... let me explain

I'm an 18 year old male finishing school this year. I don't have a job or a resume made to even get one, I don't have a car or my N license, I have no 'real' friends that live close to me, I haven't been in a relationship with a girl in almost 3 years now to top it off. I just feel so useless and lonely every single day. I smoke weed constantly because i have no self control on my use of it and because I'm so alone, I just sit at home all day and do nothing but sleep and sit around getting high which doesn't even make me feel better anymore. I keep trying to do things in order to improve my life but i just can't find the energy and motivation to do things anymore and i can't figure out why, i just get so stressed out with everything piling up and it just gets to be a bigger and bigger problem the longer i leave it, I feel so overwhelmed with everything i need to do. I'm sure i would be a lot happier and content with my life if i had somebody once in a while to talk to, like somebody that actually cared about me. That's why not having a girlfriend or even friends is so hard, because i know inside that I'm a nice, funny, smart, and outgoing person that can make a lot of people laugh, it's just that i don't have anyone anymore to experience the good times with and it depresses the shit out of me.. I don't even know what i want to study or do after i finish highschool.. I used to enjoy life, i don't know what happened to me.. I don't blame anything though but myself for what my life is today.

I just feel so tired and.. unmotivated, is the only word i can think of.. I want all those things so badly but i can't do anything it seems..I'm desperate to change my life around before i lose my sanity, I am asking this here because i don't know where else to ask it and why not ask other fellow stoners for some advice? I appreciate any help i get.

**Stonerman Enoch** · 03-23-2012, 08:01 PM

It's spring break? I must need to get with the times

**Stonerman Enoch** · 03-23-2012, 08:02 PM

You could get a dog.

**cannabineer** · 03-23-2012, 08:04 PM

At eighteen, you have all your vitality. Find a hard physical job worth doing (like an oilfield job in North Dakota ... I hear they're hiring). It'll snap the purpose of your life into sharp focus, teach the value (at a high valuation) of self-reliance, and give you a toolset of skills and self-confidence that'll serve you well for the next 70 years. Jmo. cn

**420God** · 03-23-2012, 08:06 PM

Start working out. You'll gain more energy and want to do stuff.

**neosapien** · 03-23-2012, 08:06 PM

Stop smoking weed. You need a job. Then a hobby. Some direction in your life. A purpose. Then start smoking weed again after you don't suck anymore. Lol j/k with the last part...Don't smoke weed again. j/k again.

**Clonex** · 03-23-2012, 08:08 PM

My god your 18 ffs ,
Smoking in the day is not helping,
You need to use it as a reward after your days work/chores,
Like everything else , moderation ,
18ffs ,
Get off your uckin lazy ass!!!!!

**Grumpy'** · 03-23-2012, 08:10 PM

Wait, no nagging girl, get to sleep n smoke all day? Where's the issue? No bills no responsibilities, noone depending on you to make sure they make it through another day. Man the life!!
The simple fact that you realize there is a problem (in your eyes, some would kill for a similar situation), shows motivation. If you think it to be a bit enough issue in your life, either get yourself motivated more (again, your were motivated enough to talk here), or seek professional help.