Flaky Friends

well, my flaky dude was my contact. I was tolerant for a while. Then during one purchase he agreed to get a large amount if we front the cash.

Then suddenly he stops answering the phone. Finally he answers and is all looped at his place. Demands that I pick it up from him, which wasn't the plan. I let it ride as chewing out someone when they're high doesn't get you anywhere. But the dude was no better when I did chew him out later on.

Now the fucker is slightly more reliable but he's upped his rates 100%. So I'm in the middle of replacing him in two ways. Growing my own...and working other contacts.

I can party with the dude. But I don't know that I'll trust him ever again.

I mean, he knew I was out, bought stuff with my cash and then headed to his home and smoked my stuff after agreeing to meet me at my joint? That's flat out fucked up. Hope your buddy is better.

they just don't get it. the guy whines about everything in his life (mortgage, kids, bills...) all the things HE's taken on. then tries to tell me i need to do the same. like i said i have to work with him. sometimes sharing a room out of town 24/7. if i speak up then I'M the asshole. uuuurrrrggghhh

yeah, I have to CONSTANTLY refrain myself from getting on that bandwagon. Trust me...you and I see eye to eye about that.

But I work with so many weak pansies that just think it's their life obligation to be a wageslave to a shitty house, a cheating wive, and boring kids. Actually I think the obligations to kids thing is real...but still. I get tired of being lectured about it by guys who don't understand why I'm still single. And then they get personal and start trying to ask if I'm gay. If only they knew that I'd be pumping their wives if I only had the chance.

oh the way she looks at me.

faded, ur flaky freind is a great model of a psychic vampire. Do unto others as they do unto you, my friend. being patient with somebody can be admirable, but dont let it go too far. its your responsibility to talk to this guy n let him know whats up. and keep in mind, as u may be trying to act noble, u disrespect him every time u presume that he is too ignorant to be understanding.

ive spent a majority of my life helpin ppl out all the time. sometimes its appreciated. sometimes i get respect and gain trust. gain solid relationships, etc. but some people have a world perspective that makes it very hard for them to view themselves in an unbiased way, and many times these self-centered people have a worse time considering others.

give the situation a solid chance. lighten up on how u judge him and explain to him how u think of the situation. if he acts like an asshole, part ways. or at least tell him ur not gonna help him out as much.

yeah, we go thru that every 6 months. it gets to me. feelings get hurt. we talk about it. he mellows out for a couple months. and then slowly....

Then personally, id just tell him to fuck off.

i told him today he was pathetic. then i left. he'll call me in a week and apologize. and he threw the 20 clones in the thrash because it somehow makes him feel cool. "look at me i will just toss them." with a little attitude.