would you let your teens smoke if you found out....

I'd defo let my kids smoke all they wanted. Hell, I'd probably teach them how to grow it! See, marijuana isn't a bad thing; people who do criminal things while using it irresponsibly are what make people think it's bad. It's like alcohol; a gentleman uses it in moderation, but a loser drinks to get drunk. See? I'm only 18 and planning to start my first guerilla grow, but I don't want my kids risking getting in trouble this way. I'd let them grow it inside. (it's what i'd do if i weren't still living with my parents.)

Originally Posted by goten

for you who have kids..when they grow up to be teenagers would you let them smoke if you found out that they were doing it anyway?? i ask because of my fucked up father!!
i grew running away all the time on the streets of portsmouth and norfolk va. cuz my dad would beat the shit out of me since i was like 6yrs.old i did not move to n.c untill i was 17.
i started smokein pot when i was probley about 13-14. they didnt know it though. i dont think they found out about it until i was maybe 15. and they would tell me not to do it and shit and how bad it was. but i never cared what my dad said cuz he had beat me so i could careless my mom was a different story.
but i still smoke anyway. when they would catch me with it they would take it and say that they was going to through it away or flush it down the toilet. well one day they took my stash and said their fushin it. so the next night they left to go somewhere ( caint really remember where )but i went to their room to find some cash to make for them takin my stash. and damn to my surprise i found my shit.. almost all gone they been smokein their selfs( whats up with that? ) dont tell me not to smoke and its bad just to take it from me like a thief in the night for your own gain!
but anyway if i found out my kids where smokein when they where teens and they where going to do it anyway id probly just let them do it at home and ask them just to do it at home. cuz theirs to much bullshit for them to get caught up in on the streets. so at least if they were at home i know that they were safe. and not out gettin into shit and maybe gettin a phone call sayin i need to pick my son/daughter from the police staition.. what would you do??

I new a straight A student in high school that got those grades because for every 'A' he brought home, he got an oz of bud.
I'll discourage my daughter from doing it, but if I bust her more then once, then at that point I can bitch all I want, she's just going to do it when I'm not looking, just like I did. Not only will I let her smoke at home, I'll be getting her weed. I don't want her dealing with some stupid ass kids that don't know how to do business and might jack her or get her busted. And, at that point, I would probably enact that same reward program that that kids parents did, an oz for every 'A'.

I first smoked out my daughter when she was 17 and my son when he was about 21. It's nothing for us to pass a big bowl between us now. Call me crazy but I believe that smoking cannabis is good for you.

If he/she is old enough to smoke, then he/she's old enough to get a job.

Originally Posted by Hepheastus420

If he/she is old enough to smoke, then he/she's old enough to get a job.

so...how many kids you got?

I smoked with my son and his friends cause they all thought I was just a cool ole head stoner. I tried to tell them...everything in moderation...and there's a time and place for getting ripped and one for being stone cold sober.

did it with my younger bro, he was 16 when he started smoking. (i did not try to stand in his way (he would just have gone behind my back (if he wanted it enough)

just told him everything i knew about drugs.

seems to have worked out fine.

i went behind my fathers back and lost respect and love for him, none of his goddamn business what i do with my body anyway.
i aint about to repeat his fearful henmother mistakes.

shiit.. the kid went to alcohol and that would be fine lol (actually worse than heroin)
but worrying about them and weed? lol, you gots to be fuxxing kidding me.

plus, i wouldnt worry about my kid , even on alcohol (or heroin) i wouldnt worry about myself and its My kid (well, unless they were more like their mother, then id advise them to stay the fuck away from drugs (drugs are not for everyone mmmk? )

Originally Posted by sso

did it with my younger bro, he was 16 when he started smoking. (i did not try to stand in his way (he would just have gone behind my back (if he wanted it enough)

just told him everything i knew about drugs.

seems to have worked out fine.

i went behind my fathers back and lost respect and love for him, none of his goddamn business what i do with my body anyway.
i aint about to repeat his fearful henmother mistakes.

shiit.. the kid went to alcohol and that would be fine lol (actually worse than heroin)
but worrying about them and weed? lol, you gots to be fuxxing kidding me.

plus, i wouldnt worry about my kid , even on alcohol (or heroin) i wouldnt worry about myself and its My kid (well, unless they were more like their mother, then id advise them to stay the fuck away from drugs (drugs are not for everyone mmmk? )

I can tell you don't have kids. People that don't have kids always know how best to raise them. Kids don't come with instruction manuals and the advice you get is usually worth very little. Every child has different needs and no two are alike in the way they need to be raised. It's the toughest, most unthankful job a parent can ever have. Kids are a money pit and they will stomp a mudhole in your heart. Parents do not know how to communicate to their kids, most of the time. Their intent is good but most really suck at communicating that.