So I am really thinking about growing and I know my wife does not want me to. I have a background in engineering and I have no doubt that it could easily be done without her ever knowing. How does the forum feel? Should I do it or not?

Maybe you should think about how important you marriage is to you and respect your wife . . . . just my 2cents

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Matthew, every post...seems like you are unhappy.In your marriage.I predict that somethings going to give soon.Don't grow until your relationship problems are cleared up.Smoke far away where she can't rib you...you make decent money...take a room in the house or the garage, and let it be your private space...smoke there, but don't let her know, or she'll come nag you.Get your life where you want it first, to lessen the possibility of nastiness.Good luck.

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We do have a lot of problems I am would not be shocked in the least if we were not living together this time next year. That being said this is just one more of those things I feel strongly about. One of the few times I put my foot down.

I know....but...if you piss her off......she may TELL on you, man!

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But you don't want to compromise your grow with relationship problems. Shit can get bad and you don't want her ratting you out to the cops because of other issues. Maybe you should try to open up communication with her again, this kind of shit is hard I know but you don't want to fuck it up more with illegal activity. Good luck bro I hope it all works out for you

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Of course my first though is "she would never do that", but then again I bet there are more than a few men with records who thought that as well.

Who is the man of that house. I would just do it.

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I feel for you man, i wouldnt know what to do either.

but fortunately for me, my g/f encouraged me to start a grow.

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Well I think as soon as my wife gets a trabajo she will be cool with getting high.