AchillesLast
Well-Known Member
Does that mean I should break up?
I often find myself contemplating a single life. It's not that I'm bored and and my girl just doesn't satisfy my looks anymore. I just find myself constantly wishing for the freedom I had when I was single. I get tired of having to call someone and tell them where I am or having stupid fights about staying at her house or my house. However, we have been dating for over 1.5 years and for 8+ months of our relationship it was long distance. After that initial 8 months she moved to my town and goes to my university.
This is where my problem lies. Had she been a local girlfriend from the beginning I don't even think I would be contemplating this question, but I feel I owe her so much because I was basically the reason she moved. She is a great girl and it would probably take awhile to find someone as cool and understanding as her. But she can very needy while I am very independent and those lifestyles often clash as I have no problem being "on my own" sometimes (doing me stuff, practicing guitar, or just decompressing after a long day) while she needs me in her life ALL THE TIME. She can't find anything productive to do when I'm not with her and it get's SUPER ANNOYING.
I promised myself I wouldn't post my problem on these forums but over the last three months I find myself contemplating this issue more and more. I just want to talk about it to someone about it.
I often find myself contemplating a single life. It's not that I'm bored and and my girl just doesn't satisfy my looks anymore. I just find myself constantly wishing for the freedom I had when I was single. I get tired of having to call someone and tell them where I am or having stupid fights about staying at her house or my house. However, we have been dating for over 1.5 years and for 8+ months of our relationship it was long distance. After that initial 8 months she moved to my town and goes to my university.
This is where my problem lies. Had she been a local girlfriend from the beginning I don't even think I would be contemplating this question, but I feel I owe her so much because I was basically the reason she moved. She is a great girl and it would probably take awhile to find someone as cool and understanding as her. But she can very needy while I am very independent and those lifestyles often clash as I have no problem being "on my own" sometimes (doing me stuff, practicing guitar, or just decompressing after a long day) while she needs me in her life ALL THE TIME. She can't find anything productive to do when I'm not with her and it get's SUPER ANNOYING.
I promised myself I wouldn't post my problem on these forums but over the last three months I find myself contemplating this issue more and more. I just want to talk about it to someone about it.