How to deal with cop calling neighbors?

RandomChick

Member
Ok so we live in a medical state and all our paperwork is in order, plant count and weight within limits, all our ducks in a row. But we have the most god awful neighbors. If I could afford to move, I would, but that isn't an option right now. They are up fighting with each other all night, have made a spurious complaint to children services that reulted in a police visit, but no search (stuck to my guns, and boy were they PISSED), and traumatized my children. They call the police constantly on each other, the EMS truck is there at least once a week. They live off of an insurance annuity and often spend it all on pills before they can pay the bills, but the mother in law bails 'em out for the kids sake whenever this happens. The husband tries to start a conversation with me whenever he catches me alone, and tells me his kids are afraid to play outside because we live next door. His kids! My kids are scared the CPS lady is going to come back and try to take them away again! Cars come and go at all hours of the day and night, and this guy actually tried to "help" us sell our weed by spreading around what we do to known criminals, who showed up at my doorstep complete with gunshot wounds thinking I would sell to them. We only deal with our patients and on the rare occasions we have overages they go to a dispensary. Only posting today because he had the police there again, only with a ladder out looking over our privacy fence today, and I just panicked. Anyone else have any successs with a restraining order against neighbors? Or just a story that relates so I don't feel like the only person that ever had to go through all this bullshit?
 

ilikecheetoes

Well-Known Member
move and next time dont tell the neighbors you grow weed dumbass. And dont grow weed where you have kids, dumbass. you are just asking for trouble. You and i may think weed is fine. Most of the rest of the country doesnt. And the cops just need any excuse to harrass. thats what they do for a living.
You are going to be robbed. And you have kids in the house. how fucking stupid can you be?


....imho
 

strikinghigh55

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move and next time dont tell the neighbors you grow weed dumbass. And dont grow weed where you have kids, dumbass. you are just asking for trouble. You and i may think weed is fine. Most of the rest of the country doesnt. And the cops just need any excuse to harrass. thats what they do for a living.
You are going to be robbed. And you have kids in the house. how fucking stupid can you be?


....imho
Albeit a little harsh, but he is correct. You will be dealing with a robbery or home invasion soon. The cops are the least of your problems if you have your "ducks in a row". Invest in a way to protect your home and family until you can move. I'm a firm believer in firearms, so I naturally suggest you have one and have it handy. Be smart though. Idk how old your children are, but if old enough, they need to know about firearms and have respect and a healthy fear for them (judging from the sounds of your area, this is a must). Keep your clips separate from your weapons. I fear for you and your family. Moving should be your number one priority. If you're not ready and willing to do what must be done in the event of an invasion, I would cease growing and make sure your POS neighbors know you don't grow any more. Sounds like this might be the safest option as children are involved. Good luck sir (EDIT: or ma'am).
 

RCgrowerman

Active Member
move and next time dont tell the neighbors you grow weed dumbass. And dont grow weed where you have kids, dumbass. you are just asking for trouble. You and i may think weed is fine. Most of the rest of the country doesnt. And the cops just need any excuse to harrass. thats what they do for a living.
You are going to be robbed. And you have kids in the house. how fucking stupid can you be?


....imho
Who the fuck are you to talk to someone like that? Your points are valid but the way you explained them were ridiculous you would never speak to someone like that face to face or you wouldn't be speaking for very long.... Have a little respect when talking to strangers.
 

bluntmassa1

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ya sounds kinda dumb to me as well. first off your gonna want to move ( out of site out of mind ) and keep your fucking mouth shut. I'd be surprised if you don't get robbed with your neighbor telling everybody he knows. but you fucked yourself over by letting people know your buisness. the mafia didn't get big by bragging about their buisness to anyone who'd listen.
 

GOD HERE

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If you're legal then yeah pull out a restraining order, do whatever you have to do to get you're neighbor to climb out of your ass. And anytime the police do something the video camera needs to come out, and you should consult with a lawyer to see what you're able to do about that issue as well, since the police seem to think they're above the law.

And I agree with strikinghigh, get a shotgun for home defense. This neighbor sounds nuts.
 

RandomChick

Member
It's ma'am, and we have protection for growing with children written into our law, here. Many of our friends who grow also have children. i'm not worried about children's services anyomore, as one of the people who came out is now a patient of a friend of mine, and the neighbor was investigated for making a false claim. So don't lecture me on growing with kids. That's not what I asked. What I asked for was advice on restraining orders. For a pot growing forum some of you people are awfully judgemental. We didn't know, obviously when we moved in what we were dealing with next door, and the guy happened to see me at a dispensary one day so it's not like I invited him over to look at the damn thing. We do have security, cameras and alarms, but that doesn't stop him from cornering me when I'm coming with groceries and what have you. We will be moving in the next couple of months, but for the immediate future I just want some peace of mind that this guy can't come onto my property without consequences until then.
 

SSHZ

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move and next time dont tell the neighbors you grow weed dumbass. And dont grow weed where you have kids, dumbass. you are just asking for trouble. You and i may think weed is fine. Most of the rest of the country doesnt. And the cops just need any excuse to harrass. thats what they do for a living.
You are going to be robbed. And you have kids in the house. how fucking stupid can you be?


....imho

This response is exactly correct. Some people are just too stupid to grow pot, legally or not! Let this be a wake up call- wise up and go about things smarter or suffer the eventual consequences. Maybe our bluntness will serve you well.
 

RandomChick

Member
Thanks RC, guess I should have come into this conversation with a thicker skin, but honestly on a growing forum, I thought I'd find a little compassion and human decency. Guess assholes exist in all spheres.
 

Flaming Pie

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It's ma'am, and we have protection for growing with children written into our law, here. Many of our friends who grow also have children. i'm not worried about children's services anyomore, as one of the people who came out is now a patient of a friend of mine, and the neighbor was investigated for making a false claim. So don't lecture me on growing with kids. That's not what I asked. What I asked for was advice on restraining orders. For a pot growing forum some of you people are awfully judgemental. We didn't know, obviously when we moved in what we were dealing with next door, and the guy happened to see me at a dispensary one day so it's not like I invited him over to look at the damn thing. We do have security, cameras and alarms, but that doesn't stop him from cornering me when I'm coming with groceries and what have you. We will be moving in the next couple of months, but for the immediate future I just want some peace of mind that this guy can't come onto my property without consequences until then.
That sounds HORRIBLE! I feel for you.

Is your husband a big man? Have him threaten the neighbor maybe?

Or have a friend/family member (preferably a big man) house sit while you go grocery shopping once a week and then help you carry the groceries in.

That should keep the creep away.
 

strikinghigh55

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All due respect to the OP (seriuosly), but just because the law allows you to grow with children in the home, doesn't mean you should. There is another side to the law. OUTLAW. Criminals don't always put the gun behind their back just because your child wakes up to see you with a gun to your head getting into the safe. How would YOUR children react? Growing pot just increases the risk that this could happen. Especially if you choose to raise kids in questionaby violent areas. I'm speaking from experience when I say that seeing a gun pointed at mom or dad can really mess a young child up for a while. Consider this when dealing in risky business.
 

RandomChick

Member
Thank you for the actual input. Consider this thread dead though. Have an appt. with the law director Monday. Apparently two other neighbors also have restraining orders on this fuck up. Contacted his landlord too, so hopefully this all ends soon. We grow for my nephew who is 16 and has sever epilepsy, so this is something we'll probably always do. I do consider my children in everything I do, which is why we're moving soon, and hopefully the really awesome neighbors we have will get some peace when we're gone.
 

RCgrowerman

Active Member
Thanks RC, guess I should have come into this conversation with a thicker skin, but honestly on a growing forum, I thought I'd find a little compassion and human decency. Guess assholes exist in all spheres.
I really do agree with their main points I just don't understand why they are being so rude to you.
 

stone1977

Active Member
I would talk with the people you grow for and maybe they would help come up with money to move sooner. The riskyou have may convinc them alone. Also do you take the cbds out of the Weed so he's not getting the Tucker since all he needs is the cbds? You can make a oil.
 

hush.0

Member
Thanks RC, guess I should have come into this conversation with a thicker skin, but honestly on a growing forum, I thought I'd find a little compassion and human decency. Guess assholes exist in all spheres.
They're not assholes, there being brutally honest. If you wanted to be lied to you should have said so, but honestly letting anyone know that you have something of value is not smart, more so with herbs. And I find even more stupidity that you are putting you kids in danger. Now you'll probably say I'm an asshole, that's fine and dandy, we are all just trying to be honest here.
 

Sativied

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As they said during the previous election here over and over, let's focus on the contents, not the tone. First response was spot-on imo, probably got her thinking twice now, which she should have done in the first place.

Would "that is not such a smart thing to do" have the same impact? I think not.

Don't tell your neighbors, don't tell your family, don't tell what you think are your friends, don't tell anyone. Heck if you can fool her/him, tell your spouse it's slaw.
 

freeshit

Active Member
Where is your husband? If ANYONE was bothering my wife. It would be an issue. He is getting his ass kicked in or I am getting my ass kicked in. But it would be dealt with. Tell your hubby to man-up!
 

FlyLikeAnEagle

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Thanks RC, guess I should have come into this conversation with a thicker skin, but honestly on a growing forum, I thought I'd find a little compassion and human decency. Guess assholes exist in all spheres.

You're assuming you're dealing with adults on here, a lot of these people here are either 15 year old kids or right wing whackos who haven't seen a bag of weed since they flushed their kids weed down the toilet in 1979.
 
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