This is my first grow and I have already made tons of mistakes(but have learned from them and now use KISS). One of my plants has balls and hairs, so I am confused on gender. It was stressed a bit in it's younger days(as you can see in the pics). One pic shows what look like balls makeint it a male, but the other pic(higher up on the plant) shows hairs like a female. Did I stress it into a Hermi? Thanks.