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Old 03-18-2008, 05:43 AM
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Question I need advice about a threesome...?
Ok, I'd really like some help with this. It's kinda a weird situation. I'm not even sure it's an offer...

I'm friends with this couple, both my age. I've known them for a few years. He's straight, and she's bi, before him, she was with a woman for a long time.

As I've hung out with them more, they've both started getting really flirtatious and grabby -- but ONLY when the other isn't around. When we're all together they're all about each other.

They have BOTH suggested that we all have a threesome, but we've never ALL talked about it, you know? She's suggested that he'd go for it if we initiate it one day after a smoking session. He just straight told me he'd love to fuck me while I eat her out. Sometimes when we're together I'll flirt with her to tease him, and he...well, he jokes back, but I don't think he likes it too much.

They have a real volatile relationship. Like, they're fighting, then they're making up. They love each other, they hate each other. They get jealous over weird things...

Normally, if my friends boyfriend tries to fuck me, I would tell her. I like to be loyal to my friends. But it's like, she's doing the same thing, and he's my friend too, so I should be telling him too.

I want to know what the hell is going on. Are they fucking with me? Are they both doing this together, or are they both doing this without the other knowing? I'm scared to just bring it up to them both together, because the way they act when we're all together. And I'm too worried to mention it to them separately, because that would mean telling each of them "Your significant other is trying to fuck me." When they fight...they get pretty out of hand.

There's so much talk about sex going around, I figured it'd be a good place to ask for some opinions. I seriously need some.
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Old 03-18-2008, 06:50 AM
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hmmmm sounds suspect lol find new friends hahaha
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Old 03-18-2008, 07:05 AM
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damn girl you's a FREAK!!!! i need to find some females like you lol. na on some forreal shit, i think you should confront them both and let them kno how you feel. obv. the both wanna mess wit chu but they are afraid to put it out in the open because they are afraid about how the other one is goin to act. so once u put it out there, and the smoke clears, they you all will realize that you want the same things. but on the bad side of the track, you have to remember that after sex ppl act diffrient. so you have to decide weither its worth changin how you guys are. but then again it might not change anything.but that choice is yours. i just hope that if u decide to do the threesome that you plz bless me with some pics lol.
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iono!!!!!!!!!!

that is a tough call!
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their relationship is on the down slide. do you really want to be a part of that?
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their relationship is on the down slide. do you really want to be a part of that?
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Dude, a threesome changes shit. You will hear all the fantasy stories like everyone's still friends and you have a good laugh over that one night, but realistically, its gonna change shit between you guys.

If you value the friendship you have with them, my advice is to not go that route, if your really not that great of friends, well then thats your call.
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I wouldnt do it, I would play and flirt but dont really ever go there. A couple who is happy and never fights and is so cool are suspect to change in a threesome...trust me most of mine though they started out seeming like it was going to be so cool it ended up with somebody having some tension...and me always feeling bad like hey I just did my best sorry if I made you both cum really good dont start playing jealousy games....so long short if they already have a rocky relationship then this could be the catalyst that makes it blow up and it will really only hurt you cuz they will just make up and youll be without friends and have a shitty sex exerience in your head..i try to limit my shitty sex experiences..
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i dont know cuz they both want her so they both get satisfied. let them both lick you all over, you will have fun. if problems arise they were never realy your friends anyway.

Just wanna make sure you dont show one more affection than the other (specially the man)

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man u would prob have all the shit under the sun when it is over,
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