I bunch of questions for the RIU community. How many people have spouses that smoke with them? of those whose spouses don't, do they approve of your smoking?

For those of you who don't live with your spouse. do they know you grow? do they approve or would they approve if they knew?

spouse she smokes more than me most days

Me and my hubby smoke EVERYDAY, and he loves me even more now that i grow... What is going on with your spouse Kant??

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BAMA '08.....

oh my girlfriend doesn't approve of smoking. For that reason she also doesn't know about my hobby. i'm in a long distance relationship, which for all of it's negative aspects, allows me to continue my habit and my hobby. *sigh*

My wife smoked with me on a regular basis untill the storck came by. We are still unsure about THC tranfer through breastmilk, so fo the time being no ganja for the mama.

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When I can get to it, with weed, my wife and I have the best sex in the world and love our long walks. After 25 years of marriage and tokin' from time to time, it's a good helper for us. Peace to all of you

I started smoking as soon as i delivered (after 1 week in the hospital, my hubby has it ready as soon as i got home!!!) i breast feed regualarly (for 6 month as long as i could) and no problems with my baby, he's just as bright and sweet as my first(hadnt started smoking yet). You all will be fine, tell her to toke up... she deserves it!!!! Now alcohol on the other hand is a definate NO, NO...lol

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BAMA '08.....

Oh! That sucks!
My spouse doesn't smoke either and he used to always have a problem with it. I've quit off and on several times but the last time was about 3 years ago.

For the most part hubby has had a problem with it. For one, weed just doesn't sit with him right. In the 18 years we have been together, we have smoked together only about 3 times and every single time he get totally sh*t-faced and freaks out. Needlessly to say, he assumed that it had this same affect on me.

He often tells me to make sure I don't drive when I've been smoking. Yeah right! Like I'm gonna wait hours to drive. If I've just tried a new strain for the first time and get totally blazed, then duh,
of course I'm not gonna drive.
The thing that most people don't realize is that it doesn't affect all people the same way. Plus we get somewhat used to it in our sysytems.
Now that I started up again as of last May his attitude has changed a LOT!!!
I'm still fighting for some things concerning my growing indoors, but for the most part, all is good.

He now realizes that it calms me down better than any prescription meds with little side affects.
This has been the most supportive he has ever been about me smoking.

I honestly don't know what I'd do if hubby 'told' me I can't do weed any more.

All I can say is:

I'd really miss him.

My wife smokes with me on occassion. But not nearly as much as I.

She knows that I grow, but isn't thrilled with it. Of course she's concerned about the consequenses of getting caught, what will the kids think if they knew, etc...

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It does, and obviously i can't keep it a secret forever but...i have no idea what i'm gonna say to her if she ever finds out or if we move in together.