i really have a problem with my girlfriend...weve been together for about 4yrs now...i just dnt understand why she doesnt want me smoking weed no more when im smoking weed since the first time she met me(she actually saw me smoking weed the first time we met,then i court her)first 2yrs was all good she dont mind if i smoke weed..then in 3 yrs we broke up coz she has problem with my mj...we sitll keep in touch(talkin about the problem)since the break up...i know my girl loves me and i really do love her..so what i did was...i told her i'll quit smoking weed if she comes back...now wer back together but im cheating on her i always hide my mj so she wont caught me and all she know i totally quit smoking weed....
my problem is...i really dont want to lie on her..i dont know how will i talk to her about it and say i lie...i dont want to lose her again and i dnt want to stop smoking weed...
can somebody help me of my problem how will i talk to her about her problem of me smoking weed...
we live in the philippines and so you guys know we really have a different culture here.. filipinos see weed as a devil..
pls sumbody help me i dont want to lose her and my mj..
how will i talk to her?
tnx in advance and sorry for my bad english

Crazy, a majority of them are................................

Well, which one is more important to you?

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if you love her you wont lie to her or yourself and the decision shouldnt really be that hard. weed is the greatest plant in the world but it cant talk to you when you need someone to talk to, it cant hold you when you are having a bad day and it cant give you certain things a woman can give you. on the other hand, if she has a problem with something and always has and you really dont see what the big deal is you may never see eye to eye on it and never be able to move further in your relationship without thinking to yourself "man, i wish i really had a joint right now" so illegal smile is right, you have to look deep within yourself and figure out which one is more important.... i would recommend doing this sober....

my realationship with my girlfriend is more important...but i just cant see anything wrong in smoking weed...to be honest i dont want to lose both of them...i love my girlfriend so much...can any of you guys teach me on how will i convince her to stay even i smoke weed..sorry guys im really bad in english(even im half black)

I think you have to question the value of a relationship with someone who insists you give up something that important to you.

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Ask yourself why she's even asking you to quit. You spend too much $$ on it? Are you a dickhead when you smoke? ETC ETC.

If a person cannot accept you for who you are, then it was never meant to be. It sucks, but you must accept it.

I assume there is some underlying problem here, and there usually is. I'd inspect there before i blame it all on MJ.

So why do you smoke in the first place? Explain to her why you do and it's benefits.

Being honest never hurts. Lying and having to sneek around will bite you in the ass someday. I've seen several friends get handed divorce papers over stupid shit like this. Not worth it at all.

MJ is just like anything else. It can create a problem. The cure is to identify the problem(s) and figure out how to fix the problems 1 step at a time.

Good luck with the lady. If she don't treat you right, you know MJ will!

Its easy, dont let her catch you smoking it and youll be fine

Hit the road...lol

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weed is very cheap here in philippines...only 2500pesos per "1kilo" (about 50$ in your money) and i dont think im dickhead when im high..to tell you i've been in a gang in my teenage yrs but weed helps me quit since i really hook in it(i dont wnt gang bangs anymore)...and yes,i ask her b4 what is the problem y she want me to quit smoking weed her answer was"youre getting addicted too much and my family wont accept you if they knew about it"...and to tell you guys her father is a police officer...and yes i dont want to lie anymore thats y im here asking for advice from you guys