sounds like ur doin the right thing. Caring for YOURSELF first...after all, can't look out/care for somebody else until you care for yourself first, but just wanted to say....


And I know this will sound sexist but- I personally, think that women are generally more needy by nature...like it's some sort of evolutionary characteristic. they want a guy to be emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually strong and supportive- after all, that will better-ensure survival of offspring.

So the more "clingy or needy" you act, like you're trying to save the relationship by latching on, the more turned off she'll be. Maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to hang out with some female friends around her. Ignite that spark again by eliciting a lil jealousy, ya know? When they say "nice guys finish last" and "women want a bad boy", there IS a lil something too it, which sucks, cuz we're always sorta expected to act a bit inhumane and selfish or assholish, even if we don't want to, but hell, we still want to attract girls.

GL to ya

I did'nt read your post.If you ain't fucking her good,shes leaving.

I feel for you bro... yup, you just gotta take care of yourself and kick it with some new pals! it will all work out for you in time....just don't dwell on it.

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Long term relationships carried over from high school sweethearts rarely work out. Been there, done that. Focus on anything and everything that can help your life move forward and try not to think about it. Whatever happens was meant to happen. I know surrendering that kind of control over is hard, but believe me it's the best thing. Don't worry about saving face. Pride is the refuge of the weak anyway. Just stay true to yourself, be honest, and make good long term decisions. Best of luck.

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I don't have any advice, but I feel for you bro, hang in there bud

I know for a fact that this is not an issue...LOL

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This one would be number 12, so not exactly the first. Im just gonna give it some time to play out.

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hey bucket, i feel your pain bro, the same thing happened with me and my high school sweet heart we dated for seven years and kinda grew apart even though we were still very close. It is the lure of not knowing what else is out there. she probably is feeling the need to spread her wings a little bit. You know what they say set it free...... I did the same with my girlfriend from high school. In 2000 i set my beautiful butterfly free. And to tell you the truth it was some of the most painful years of my life. We went years without speaking. If we did see each other it wasnt pleasent. But I can tell you THEY DO COME BACK!!!!!!!!!

SHE CAME BACK!!!!It took her a long time but she finallly realized what we had and that that type of thing isnt easy to find!!!! The only problem is theres a new girl now, one that makes me just as happy as the girl from high school!!!

The moral of the story here is set her free. And set yourself free!!!! Spread your wings and explore the world. See all the things you been missin. In time you will find love, if not with her then with someone else!!! It will all work out just as it is meant to be. Its life man you gotta pick up the pieces and keep on truckin!!!

Thanks man, what you say makes alot of since... But over the past few days me and all my friends have been kinda confused. Because me and homegirl have been hanging out alot and today she came to my house and fucked me and gave one badass blowjob!!!! go figue Soo i guess i will take this one day at a time...

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just make sure to keep your guard up, im not saying anything bad about ur girl cause I dont know her but the damn females can put a hurtin on us like no other.Hope everything works out for you guys!!!!!