Ok so I know I have had a lot "wife" related threads but right now we are doing better and something in my head has just kinda clicked and made me happier. We have more sex and it doesn't feel like I am going to have to pay her afterwards.

Anyways the other night after an episode of weeds (her favorite show) I brought up wanting to grow. In the past she had talked about how she didn't want anything illegal in the house and how if her brother (a recovering adict) or her sister (a sweet, innocent "you have DRUGS, I am telling the police" type) found the plants she would die.

I explained that she wouldn't even be able to find them and that no one is going to get caught because its not like I am turning an entire bedroom into a grow house. She still didn't like the idea so I explained that this was an issue that I felt strongly about and she needed to think about it.

She finally said she didn't mind as long as no one ever found the plants and I didn't just swap booze for pot (was a 2 or 3 case a week guy in the past.) I had fully planned on "putting my foot down" (something I have only ever done on one other issue...EVER) and telling her this is how its going to be, period. Now I am in this marriage 50/50 but sometimes things are important and you have to just say "look I know you don't like this but it doesn't effect you and I feel strongly about it".

My question is, do and of you have significant others who don't smoke or don't like the idea of your grow?

dude my GF hates pot and hates the fact that i grow. but since i do it on a property that i am in control of and because she never goes there i can still do it.

pot is the only thing we fight about literally only thing. the way i see it; its something she dosent and never will understand so i have to keep it secret and such. but its not that bad because if i didnt have her i would do it alot and i have a realy hard undergrad major and may get lazy

honestly it helps with my ADD when used infrequently

Take me as I am, as long as noone is being hurt.

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im with my girlfriend 2 and a half years. known eachother for ten and have been together on and off for all that time, i used to smoke but dont anymore. i grow she smokes. my grow tent is in our bedroom, we get on fantastically and are truly " in love ".

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my girl wasnt ok with it at first but then was like hell yeah considering it cost more to go out and buy the amount i need to just letting the shit grow and have however much i wanna make.

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thats gotta be ruff. my girl is checking the ph right now

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My ol' lady is a bit paranoid about it... but she really doesn't mind.

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once i started its nothing to her now. she doesnt mess wit it cuz if anything gets fucked up i will blame it on her thats why i am the only one to watch them progress

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I've been with my wife for 8 years now. We used to smoke together frequently but since we've had 2 boys, she feels it immature and I should grow up. She quit, I didn't. I have my first outdoor grow nearing completion now, and she hates it ( maybe cause lately I've been paying more attention to my mistress then her ) but at this point there is no way I'm getting rid of it. It was an accidental grow and she knew about it when it was about 3" tall ( she even went as far as to "accidently" step on it. ) Fortunately, it was a hardy lil bastard and I should be reaping the benefits soon.

I can see the point of disagreeing with growing for legal purposes, especially if you have a family, but you need to make sure if you do this you have some support from her. You really don't want to fuck up your home life for something so trivial. It's obvious everyone here loves the bud, but nothing is worth the grief you endure of a woman scorned by going against her wishes.

My .02 cents, and gl bro.

My ex-girlfriend doesn't smoke and wasn't too keen on me smoking. When I first expressed an interest in growing, she told me that I wasn't allowed to. I have to say I'm stubborn to a fault, so I took this as a challenge. I never said anything else on the subject, I just went ahead and did it. It was my way of saying "Fuck you I won't obey you!!!" I had my grow set up within the month. I will admit I was being a tad childish tho

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