Unusual Sexual Issue

TBoneJack

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That sounds about right. I'm willing to give this a go. Should I consult a doctor about doing that? I've heard if you don't get off your body kind of does it itself via nocturnal emissions, just want to make sure it's all 100% safe.

The longest I've gone without doing it myself is like 3 or 4 days, can't imagine a month! But I'll give it a try, and I'm pretty sure that would help.

Thanks for the suggestions guys, I appreciate them.
I'd say go for a month without your hand or your girlfriend. If you go a month with no ejac or stimulation, I bet you'll have no trouble peaking once you get in that pink glove again.

As I've gotten older, I find that marijuana helps both me and my wife get "there" with more intensity than when we were 20. Do you smoke before sex?

Do you or your gf have kids? When our last child moved off to college, my wife and I were like on permanent honeymoon. I had to be careful of dehydration from fluid loss, and it hasn't let up since.

Have you thought about seeing a sex therapist? Your insurance might even pay for it.
 

Padawanbater2

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I'd say go for a month without your hand or your girlfriend. If you go a month with no ejac or stimulation, I bet you'll have no trouble peaking once you get in that pink glove again.

As I've gotten older, I find that marijuana helps both me and my wife get "there" with more intensity than when we were 20. Do you smoke before sex?

Do you or your gf have kids? When our last child moved off to college, my wife and I were like on permanent honeymoon. I had to be careful of dehydration from fluid loss, and it hasn't let up since.

Have you thought about seeing a sex therapist? Your insurance might even pay for it.
Yep, that's what did it, but it took a little over 3 months

Smoking has the same effect on me, makes sex much better
 

Moldy

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If you don't love her it can make squirting difficult. Anyway, I've issues with whores before and can't get off. Oh well, I have a great wife!
 

thepenofareadywriter

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I can't cum when I get intimate.

I find this extremely unusual as I've heard my entire life how a lot of guys bust right after entry and how premature ejaculation is pretty common.

I can get the job done myself no problem, with or without the use of porn, just NEVER with someone else.

Been on a sexual level with 4 different girls, same problem. This problem has significantly damaged one of my previous relationships.

I can get aroused fine, stay aroused fine, I just can't peak... I figure this has got to be a mental issue, some kind of mental block in my brain...

Does anyone have any advice how I might solve this rubix cube? :confused:

I've got a girlfriend I've been with for a while, we're pretty comfortable with each other and she's relatively open minded..

Everything is welcome.
have you noticed yourself, or at least your eyes being directed at anything out of the norm ? if you have...maybe you have a new liking...or are you getting up there in age? good luck
 

panhead

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have you tried sex with a man yet? gay is the new straight. :bigjoint:
Oh this is some funny ass shit , how the fuk did I miss this the 1st time around , havent made it to the end yet but bless the member who brought this back to life , cant wait to read the responses .

The anal warning from Nubiebud was a good one:lol:
 

panhead

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I am a licensed hypnotherapist, . I sense a block here for you , You sound brave enough give hypnotherapy a try:)
Abra Cadabra , i sense this is getting better & better by the minute .

I sense you own a pair of shoes :lol:

LMAO Big time .:lol:
 

panhead

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Oh the responese in this thread were golden , not laughing at the problem you had pada but the responses are too rich :)

Consider yourself lucky , when ya get my age nothing works right & its permenant .
 

AbsentSin

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I can't cum when I get intimate.

I find this extremely unusual as I've heard my entire life how a lot of guys bust right after entry and how premature ejaculation is pretty common.

I can get the job done myself no problem, with or without the use of porn, just NEVER with someone else.

Been on a sexual level with 4 different girls, same problem. This problem has significantly damaged one of my previous relationships.

I can get aroused fine, stay aroused fine, I just can't peak... I figure this has got to be a mental issue, some kind of mental block in my brain...

Does anyone have any advice how I might solve this rubix cube? :confused:

I've got a girlfriend I've been with for a while, we're pretty comfortable with each other and she's relatively open minded..

Everything is welcome.
Its called delayed ejaculation, I suffer from the same thing. First time I had sex I didn't climax. Its the opposite of premature ejaculation.
 

Gibbz2.0

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I have the same "problem" sometimes makes you a beast in the sheets though. However I found if I almost totally pull myself out and then go back in and repeat, the friction at the tip is what actually is sensitive and makes you....produce... Try it if it doesnt work worst that happens is you deep dick your old lady....
 

St1kybudz

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I can't cum when I get intimate.

I find this extremely unusual as I've heard my entire life how a lot of guys bust right after entry and how premature ejaculation is pretty common.

I can get the job done myself no problem, with or without the use of porn, just NEVER with someone else.

Been on a sexual level with 4 different girls, same problem. This problem has significantly damaged one of my previous relationships.

I can get aroused fine, stay aroused fine, I just can't peak... I figure this has got to be a mental issue, some kind of mental block in my brain...

Does anyone have any advice how I might solve this rubix cube? :confused:

I've got a girlfriend I've been with for a while, we're pretty comfortable with each other and she's relatively open minded..

Everything is welcome.
It could be something subcontious man do you do any drugs I'm not trying to be weird but for sure when I do any amphetamines I can't get up without viagra and when I do I can't get off.... some girls just ain't that good ...... sometimes it's more trouble than its worth..... maybe just subcontiously you know that you don't want or maybe need a kid. It could be many things but start with looking at what drugs you use then go from there
 

Padawanbater2

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It could be something subcontious man do you do any drugs I'm not trying to be weird but for sure when I do any amphetamines I can't get up without viagra and when I do I can't get off.... some girls just ain't that good ...... sometimes it's more trouble than its worth..... maybe just subcontiously you know that you don't want or maybe need a kid. It could be many things but start with looking at what drugs you use then go from there
It stemmed from excess masturbation. I spent a few years dealing with it and figuring it out. It's strikingly similar to any other addiction people face, it's all chemical reactions in your brain sending those happy signals to your body. Everything in moderation is key, even sex/masturbation, excess is detrimental to your wellbeing
 

Hookabelly

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too much porn and not the real thing? Conditions the brain to only respond to a very specific type of sexual stimulus?
 

ASCIIGHOST

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I can't cum when I get intimate.

I find this extremely unusual as I've heard my entire life how a lot of guys bust right after entry and how premature ejaculation is pretty common.

I can get the job done myself no problem, with or without the use of porn, just NEVER with someone else.

Been on a sexual level with 4 different girls, same problem. This problem has significantly damaged one of my previous relationships.

I can get aroused fine, stay aroused fine, I just can't peak... I figure this has got to be a mental issue, some kind of mental block in my brain...

Does anyone have any advice how I might solve this rubix cube? :confused:

I've got a girlfriend I've been with for a while, we're pretty comfortable with each other and she's relatively open minded..

Everything is welcome.
It is a result of your circumcised penis. It has been desensitized over the years from constant contact with underwear and jeans. Abandon all western culture, and engage yourself in man love Thursday. You'll feel more comfortable.
 
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