Hey Darlin' Just a couple words on the 3som thing. If you value the couple, talk about the pitfalls, friendship,disease,std's, and the needs of the couple, emotionally sexually and phisically. the problem is that if you are not fully commited to the relationship the gealosy animal can get really bad. if the questions are all answered to your satisfaction, then think about it . the act of love is the greatest sacrament that can be offered up to the gods. but you have to be at peace with yourself and the couple as well as with the universe. otherwise the whole thing can go to hell in a handbasket. as a life long swinger and a child of the 60's I would not do it unless we talked it out to the Nth degree.then enter the game with the knowledge that the act can and will be beautiful as long as everyone is fully consenting and aware of the contract you all are entering into. Do as thou will shall be the whole of the law as long as thee do no harm. Have fun! ( just a few words, SHIT I couldn't use a few words if my soul depended on it!!!) Be Safe,Be Well And Be Stoned! Best,Mike