Fuck helping her pack her shit, just start packing her shit when she says that stuff. It's the reason I keep some collapsed boxes, newspaper and a roll of duct tape under the bed lol, sounds bad but I'm through with woman like that
Semi auto 12 gauge with #6 shot, drop anything within 20 feet and won't go through the walls, if your gonna defend your family and home this IMO is the safest way if your "have" to have a firearm