Does anyone know if the first two photos are pre-pistils?? If so, any idea on the gender?

As for the third [horribly lit] shot.. is there ANY way this plant can be flowered in twelve days? It's either that or I kill it because I'd be on a trip during harvest if I flower any time later.. I'm growing hydro, if that helps. I really don't want to kill it because it's a feminized UK cheese seed from a medicinal store (at least that's the strain they claim) and will be good smoking..

Last question.. I have to go somewhere for ten days the day right after harvest. Horrible timing, I know, but I have no other choice-- trip just sprung up on me and I can't say no to my gramps. I'm wondering whether there's any way I can leave bud drying on its own for ten days without checking on it. I'm thinking of keeping a dehumidifier in the big room outside the smaller grow room (to prevent mold but not overdry), with a fan inside the grow room. Thoughts?

Help a lady grower please! I realize I am taking big risks but would like to take the route that minimizes these the most..

peace and love to you all

Those are stipules

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Oops. Thanks. I'm learning, I swear..

We've all been there no worries
Welcome to Rollitup

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Anyone know anything about my last two questions?? i will love you forever!

Leaving the bud for ten days would probably make it turn out way too dry
A dehumidifier would make the problem worse

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it looks like you have a female plant there ive grown alot of plants from seed and that deff looks female

how does that look female?
The nodes aren't alternating and that is a sign of a female

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Aight.. good to know... looks like I will need another plan then. Teleportation would be ideal.

Damn, really? What are the chances that non-alternating nodes may still be female?