labey and Raul, thanks for the encouraging words. Definitely with RIU, and screwing things up a little, one can learn the ropes fairly quickly.
As of today it looks like the new leaves coming from Sally's middle stem (is there a term for that area?) are be viable. So I think she'll make it, but with all the stress it might turn out that Sally is a dude!

At least that's what I've heard stress can do to the plants. Let's hope not though