I am not bitter nor do I want or can I think of a reason for anyone to be sad for me, my problem just made it harder to deal with people from the anger I had inside.
The people that I know 4 who have gotten help are all crippled one couldn't be helped back and knowing him and his family well I can say that he wasn't stable before he went. The three others seem to want people to feel sorry for them and the use of this has seemed to crippled them and I know 2 of them weren't in combat or at least not as their job. At least 5 were in support for every 1 in combat.
The three that I know of that were in real combat all seem normal though one does drink way to much not that the others don't drink.
I think some people are weak willed/minded and some are strong willed/minded, you need the drive to go forward.
Although little can be drawn from what I know.
Please understand that I do care, I think more than most and I fear that some will be crippled and little can be done.