Why do you say it's so touchy when you tell everyone this? That's not something that I would tell people on a forum I frequent. But if that did in fact happen, I am so so so sorry for that, that sounds like a horror I can't imagine. But you need to realize you are the exception, and fortunately not the rule. Maybe a PM to someone next time instead of bringing up something so atrocious that was so wrongfully forced upon you.