Well boys and girls do you see a common thread here? DON'T BE A DUMBASS!! Don't have a party and show people your stuff. Don't brag about your grow. Don't be stupid in public. Don't let your g/f be stupid in public. Keep it to yourself!! You tell or show one good friend; they tell a good friend they think is very trustworthy and they tell someone that doesn't know you and they could care less if you get caught or who they tell. MYOB.