Same story here. Our first christmas together while dating, she got me a $100 bong.

Fast forward about year later, after we got married...SHE decides I am going to quit smoking. That led to a few miserable weeks, before I put my foot down. It was a long hard fight, but 6 years later I grow my own and sometimes she even suggests I go outside for a quick smoke break. I can be one unpleasant SOB to be around if I don't medicate daily, it just took her a while to realize it.

PS- matthew I like the man shack idea. Someday I plan to build a detached garage for the same purpose.