Marriage is hard and we all make mistakes.... Yea it soundslike u messed up.. left some nasty post on the forum... fine... but to take it to the point of ruining a marriage and separating the childen thats just stupid. You two are still young, 31 i think you said, so i think her responce has alot to do with being immature and not know how to express the hurt she felt when she found your post.. (BY THE WAY... WHAT DID YOU SAY IN THAT POST? WAS IT VOULGER?!?!) Anyways it sounds like you did everythnig you could to help the situation.... you even removed the post, i mean does she smoke?!?! she sounds really uptight.... Anyway, your family is in my Prayers and i hope you two can come to an understanding with out giving up on your marriage, this arguement even at the point its esclated to, is just not worth it.... Is this your 4-5 year of marriage!?!? they call those the hardest...

Keep your head up dude!!!!

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