ahh i was also wondering i dont know if you can tell by the pics but they seem really tall the first set of "big" leaves is about 1 to 2 inches out of soil for some of the plants they were tall as seedlings but i do not believe they are stretching b/c i have the good light and close enough and the stems seem to be strong.

ahh i dunno i might be being paranoid but i was just wondering if this was normal and if not how to fix? i was also wondering about topping.. should i do it, is it bad for the plant, and when to do it? sorry alot of ?s but maybe someone out there can relax me lol!